As a
Wellness Coach I work with a diverse range of people (clients) for a wide range
of reasons.
- · Physical health
- · Body composition matters
- · Performance enhancement
- · Injury prevention
- · Pain issues
- · Stress management
- · Personal / career goals
But no matter
the reason for the coaching – the client is ultimately saying ‘ I want to be
different to how I am now and I want to change’
Change is
not easy, we resist it so much – and yet change opens us up to so much
possibility
We look at
life from our ‘frame of reference’ made up of a combination of factors that
have become our ‘belief system’ – it’s from this ‘belief system’ we view our
world
To change we
need to step outside of ourselves, shake up our belief system, push ourselves
to new heights and appreciate our small victories along the way.
So instead
of dishing out the advice on Saturday 1st Feb – I took the advice –
while Fire Walking was not on my bucket list when the opportunity was presented
to me I though go for it
I approached
the night with one resolution in mind – I was going to be proud of myself
either way - whether I walked or not
I think so
often when we change our minds we scold ourselves, speak harshly to our selves,
use self defeating language – of course this in turn continues that ever increasing
circle of negativity in our lives – the conversation that we may as well stay
where we are because we are disappointing ourselves by not succeeding
So my goal
on Saturday was – make a decision stick to it and be proud of the outcome however
the penny dropped
As it
happened I walked – I stood at the end of the fire – fixed my eyes on and
focused on one spot, cleared my head and replayed Stephen’s words – walk calmly
and confidently
I lifted my
right foot and found myself standing on embers of 600 degrees Celsius , then my
left foot, then my right foot and so on to the end, the round of applause from
my fellow walkers signaled to my brain
that I was at the end – and so did the very cold wet asphalt of the car park!
I never
considered doing it, but I am glad I did –
What did the
evening and event do for me – I was going to be proud either way. I was doing
what was going to serve me best on the night and at that time with no harsh
talk or regrets
A wall is
built brick by brick – change is small actions followed by small victories
So as a
Coach / Instructor – what are you doing today to push yourself out of your comfort
zone?